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7 Reasons Why Men Love Bitches

7 reasons why men love bitches

Ever wondered why men love bitches? We’ll give 7 good reasons for that!

Bitches are hot. They are always surrounded by fans who worship them like crazy. So why do men love bitches? Let’s find out!

Most often, a man chooses a certain type of woman which, at the subconscious level, he associates with his own mother. The bitch’s behavior is based on manipulation: she reads the moods and desires of a partner and skillfully manages him. So, if a young man has been exposed to this practice since childhood, in adulthood it may become the only understandable form of communication with beloved women as he’ll need a femme fatale to constantly keep him on his toes.

However, there are certain qualities that make men love bitches even if their mothers were completely different. Let’s take a look at them.

Bitches love playing hard to get

Bitches have no shortage of one feature that men love so much: inaccessibility.

Evolution endowed the ancient man with the qualities of a hunter: perseverance, self-confidence, the desire to get what he wants. Over the centuries, he has procured food through his ingenuity and a variety of weapons, and his genes still demand to lure and catch a victim. Thus, the ever-elusive bitch builds her communication with men around inaccessibility: she takes a small step forward to attract, and then hastily retreats inviting a chase.

This behavior is arguably the key reason why men love bitches as it wakes up their hunter instinct. Easy prey is boring; bitches, on the other hand, know how to warm up a man even if they have been married for thirty years (more on that later), so he always has the feeling that the love and affection of his wife must be sought. This is pure psychology: the more effort we put into conquering something, the more we value it.

The bitch is full of mystery

Men are big kids, and kids love riddles. Luckily, bitches have inherent qualities that puzzle men. They never open up fully, preferring to keep some things secret: age, number of former lovers (it’s usually very high), emotional experiences. This creates an unmistakable aura of mystery around her. The bitch can be present in a man’s life, but she never gives him her heart to the end making the man perennially wonder what is on her mind.

A bitch is never a “finished book” because she constantly opens up from an unexpected side. First, the bitch releases her claws, giving her beloved a real shake-up with a scandal and smashing dishes. This is followed by a lull, when the tigress turns into an affectionate and submissive kitty, ready to caress her man.

Over time, the man gets used to this roller-coaster and potential relationships with calm girls seem boring, so even if he is no longer with a bitch he’ll seek another real-life soap opera where love borders on hate.

The bitch is a paragon of self-confidence

“What is the hardest?” “To act.”
“Something you don’t buy?” “Providence.”
“If there was one thing you lacked,
What would it be?” “Self-confidence.”

D. Rudoy – “Love is poetry”

This quote is from a man, but bitches are self-sufficient creatures. They love men, but will never be 100% dependent on them. This quality invariably gets the attention of the stronger sex. After all, men are more used to girls who begin dreaming of a wedding and how they drag the loved one down the aisle as soon as they get into a relationship.

But bitches value their freedom above someone to lean on. Such women do not compromise on the integrity of their own lives. They have a private space where outsiders are not allowed.

Independence for a bitch woman is extremely important. A self-realized woman will not be a puppet in someone’s hands. Therefore, the man quickly realizes that a wrong step can cost him the charismatic bitch. Thus, he’ll weigh his decisions and treat his beloved very carefully.

Life is never boring with a bitch

A bitch will drive you nuts, but if there’s one thing you’ll not experience with her it’s boredom because a life with a bitch never turns into the same bland routine everyone else has. The unpredictability of a woman always awakens excitement in men, making them love whoever’s behind the change.

Another strong point of temperamental women is a great sense of humor which bitches also turn into a powerful weapon. No wonder there is a proverb that says that a man falls madly in love with the woman who makes him laugh. Bitches do that all the time (when they don’t make you want to cry, obviously), that’s why men love them.

Life is already full of problems and disappointments, and a girl who is constantly sad becomes irritating quickly. The bitch, on the other hand, is always full of optimism: not only she is cheerful herself, but she also knows how to charge others with her enthusiasm. This quality allows her to adapt to any environment: the bitch often becomes a leader at work when she is adored by everyone who doesn’t hate her.

The bitch is a source of inspiration

Many artists have muses. And quite often these beautiful ladies turned into furies. Here is how D. Rudoy was tormented by his inimitable Martina Flawd:

With a haughty smile, she heard me out before declaring that the value of a book is determined not by its quality but by the opinions of its readers, and that the most worthy novel, if it doesn’t sell, might as well not exist.

The strength of bitches is in their relentless energy ripping through other people’s lives like a tornado. Bitches know what to give men to inspire them for great achievements. That’s why men love bitches to the point of not letting them go despite all the havoc and ruin she constantly creates in their lives.

Bitches are excellent actresses

Some bitches are so good at acting that nobody ever saw their real faces. In order to achieve her goals (and the bitch usually has many ambitious goals), she constantly puts on thousands of new masks. Today she is a cute silly girl, tomorrow a naive shy woman, then an experienced temptress.

Her inner instinct unmistakably tells the bitch what kind of image is needed to get what she wants. And men love it when women appear in different roles because multifaceted personalities are so incomprehensible they don’t allow any boredom. Bitches have all the means in their arsenal: the desirable tone of voice, active facial expressions and gestures, the ability to take the attractive posture, the ability to disarm with just one glance… the list goes on making men adore and worship bitches and want more of their sublime real-life acting.

Bitches are hot

Finally, the main weapon of a charismatic bitch is good looks. An unkempt bitch is a rarity because bitches love to keep themselves in perfect shape: a wonderful manicure, bright makeup, skillfully styled hair, etc. These ladies care about their bodies (as anyone should, really), but even if they have pronounced shortcomings they skillfully turn them into advantages with the help of well-chosen clothes. Bitches love to stun: they are well versed in fashion and often change their image. A fresh hairstyle or a new dress makes men desire a bitch even more.

It is difficult to compete with a bitch because she will definitely stand out from the crowd of other girls. A bitch knows how to emphasize her femininity and never hesitates to use sexuality when seducing a new victim, and men love bitches because they skillfully use the edge that nature gave them and perfect that edge even more.

The bitch is almost impossible to embarrass with an inappropriate question or joke since embarrassing people is her own forte. The predator always says what she thinks, not caring what others may think or say about her.

Why men love bitches: concluding remarks

We talked about why men love bitches, and what makes this type of woman so attractive. However, falling in love with a bitch is not a guarantee of success. In fact, it leads to failure more often than not, so if you’re a man finding yourself on the verge of falling in love with a bitch you need to take a good look around and ask yourself whether that’s a good idea.

The main thing about having a relationship with a bitch is to interest her, which is a challenge that most men are not up to. Let’s say that attracting the attention of a bitch is easy for James Bond, but the further you depart from that image the harder it’ll be to handle a bitch. So if eradicating the world’s evil is not something you do for a living on a daily basis, you may want to consider a nice next-door girl who isn’t a bitch but who’ll love you and make your life together nice and mutually comfortable.

She’ll still drive you nuts from time to time, of course, but that’s another story.

Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl―A Woman’s Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship by Sherry Argov

“Why Men Love Bitches…” is a bestselling book by Sherry Argov first published in 2002 that not only lives up to its title and tells the reader, well, why men love bitches, but also what a woman needs to do to climb out of the pit of low self-esteem and get into a relationship she wants. You can read a free sample on Amazon.com before deciding whether this book is for you:

Good luck!

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