The initial attraction for me is not even a physical thing. Not to sound too new-agey or anything, it’s actually something about a woman’s “aura” that first attracts me to her. Sure, she could be stunningly beautiful, but she could also look like a normal woman, and I would find her ten times as lovely as any model.
It bothers me though to always hear women talk to each other about how there are no decent guys out there. The experiences they describe make it sound like all men are complete jerks or freaks. If they always attract guys like that they might stop to wonder what it is about themselves that draws them to inappropriate men.
Like myself, there are a lot of guys out there who are not flashy or trendy, may not drive the cool car, but truly appreciate the woman they are with. I don’t get when women date guys who treat them badly when there are plenty of men around who would love the opportunity to treat a woman like a queen.
So what I’m basically saying is that guys like to be appreciated for who they are, not how much money they make. And if we’re given half a chance you will be rewarded with a guy who thinks the world begins and ends with you.